Sunday, July 7, 2013

रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा

Today being Sunday night at 10:00 as usual me and sweet hubby were Watching show on SAB TV "Wah wah kya baat hai". When Dr. Vishu Saxena he recites his poem "रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा". I fall in love with Poem and thought of worth sharing with you all. So here is the awesome Poem written by Dr. Vishnu Saxena "रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा"

रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा , एक आई लहर कुछ बचेगा नहीं 
तुमने पत्थर का दिल हमको कह  तो दिया पथरो पे लिखोगे मिटेगा नहीं -
 मै थो पतझर था क्यूँ निमंत्रण दिया,
रितु बसंती को तन पर लपेटे हुए 
आस  मन में लिए प्यास तन में लिए कब शरद आई पलों समेटे हुए 
तुमने फेरी  निगाहे अँधेरा हुआ 
रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा , एक आई लहर कुछ बचेगा नहीं 

मै तो होली माना लूँगा सुच मान लो 
तुम दिवाली बनोगे ये अभाश दो
मैं तुम्हें सौप दूँगा  तुम्हारी धरा  तुम , 
मुझे मेरे पलकों का आकाश दो 
उंगलियों पैर दुपट्टा लपेटो न तुम
यूँ करोगे थो दिल चुप रहेगा 

रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा , एक आई लहर कुछ बचेगा नहीं 

आँख खोली तो तुम रुकमनी सी दिखी 
बंद की आँख तो राधिका तुम लगे 
जब भी देखा तुमने शांत एकांत में 
मीरा बाई सी एक साधिका तुम लगी

कृष्ण की बांसुरी पर भरोसा रखो 
मन कंही भी रहे पर डुगेगा  
 रेत पर नाम लिखने से क्या फायदा , एक आई लहर कुछ बचेगा नहीं 
 
DR VISHNU SAXENA

Friday, June 28, 2013

चाँद का रातों में चमकना


चाँद का रातों में चमकना
अच्छा लगता है 
तेरे माथे की लकीरों में मेरा साथ 
बड़ा अच्छा लगता है 
तेरे लब्जों का जादू है या तिलस्म कोई 
हर शाम को तेरा साथ बड़ा 
अच्छा लगता है...!


Chand ka raaton mein chamkana
accha lagta hai
Tere maathe ki lakeeron mein mera saath
bada acha lagta hai
Tere lafzon ka jaadu hai ya tilasm koi
har shaam ko tera saath 
bada acha lagta hai

Just for Laugh


Just for Laugh


Answers of a brilliant student who obtained 0%

Q1. In which battle did Napoleon die?
* his last battle

Q2. Where was the Declaration of Independence signed?
* at the bottom of the page

Q3. River Ravi flows in which state?
* liquid

Q4. What is the main reason for divorce?
* marriage

Q5. What is the main reason for failure?
* exams

Q6. What can you never eat for breakfast?
* Lunch & dinner

Q7. What looks like half an apple?
* The other half

Q8. If you throw a red stone into the blue sea what it will become?
* it will simply become wet

Q9. How can a man go eight days without sleeping ??
* No problem, he sleeps at night.

Q10. How can you lift an elephant with one hand?
* You will never find an elephant that has only one hand..

Q11. If you had three apples and four oranges in one hand and four apples and three oranges in other hand, what would you have ?
* Very large hands

Q12. If it took eight men ten hours to build a wall, how long would it take four men to build it?
* No time at all, the wall is already built.

Q13. How can u drop a raw egg onto a concrete floor without cracking it?
*Concrete floors are very hard to crack.

Monday, June 10, 2013

VAT SAVIRITI-HOW TO OBSERVE

VAT SAVITRI



This year was going to be mine 2nd Vat Savitri. I was very confident that i must have updated each and every thing how i have performed this puja for the first time in my blog. But to my surprise i haven't written anything for this puja in my blog. Neither i have drafted anything for this. So this time i have decided i will upload as soon as i will get time to write about my this Puja. So here i got time and i am saying how to observe this Puja:



STORY BEHIND OBSERVING VAT SAVITRI:

The vrata has been named after Savitri. Savitri was the beautiful daughter of king Aswapati of Madra Desa. She selected Satyavan as her life's partner, a prince in exile who was living in the forest with his blind father Dyumatsen. She left the palace and lived with her husband and the in-laws in the forest. As a devoted wife and daughter in-law she took all pain to take care of them. One day while cutting wood in the jungle Satyavan head reeled and he fell down from the tree and then breathed his last on the lap of his beloved wife, Savitri. Then appeared Yamraj, the death God to take away the soul of Satyavan from his body. Deeply hurt Savitri, pleaded to Yamraj not to be separated from her husband. If at all he would take away the soul of her husband she would also follow. Yamraj, moved by the devotion of Savitri returned the life of her husband. Satyavan got back his life again and both of them lived happily thereafter



How to Observe This Vrat:

Vat Savitri Puja is mainly observed to pray for a long and healthy life for husbands. 

I have seen my mom,sister and also have been told by mom-in law we have to prepare special bhog to give to the Devi.
Note: We have to make Puri (should be deep fried in Ghee, preferably  and we have to make a tough dough of Wheat flour with jaggery water i.e.the Wheat flour should be kneaded with water with jaggery mixed in it.


  • One night before the vat savitri soak red chana in water and next morning take the Red chana out from the water and keep aside for prasad.
  • I got up earling morning after taking bath. I keep the jaggery in little water and keep it aside for 15 minutes so that the jaggery is fully dissolved in water.
  • Meanwhile i prepared the dough for my Puri and prepared 4 puri for the bhog (and rest for giving other members in the family as prasadam). 
  • When the jaggery is fully dissolved in water knead another dough. It should be hard enough. Make 12 small balls of equal size and deep fried this Ball in ghee( to be given to the goddess as Bhog) Rest you can make to give other members of your family as Prasad. This deep fried balls are called as Bargadahi.
  • Your Prasad and bhog are ready that you have to give for the puja.
  • We also have to give the goddess all Singar items like Sindoor, Mehndi,Small mirror, Comb,or anything you want we can take.
  • WE have to go around the Banyan Tree and tie a sootha. This is called as kaccha sootha. This sootha should be kept in turmeric paste so that the sootha can get yellow colour.
Image of Banyan Tree


  • Soak little bit of raw rice in water one night before and grind it to a smooth paste.
  • Take flower and jal also along with you.
  • Now my preparation was all over.
  • Wear new saree or suit along with bangles and do a sola singaar.
  • Go to a temple or anyplace where you can find Banyan Tree as during Vrat Saviriti we mainly worship Banyan Tree.
  • Take out all your preparation. Also pick banyan leaves tree and keep one leave in your hair. rest 4 banyan tree leaves place in them on floor near banyan tree.
  • Keep one puri on each banyan tree leaves and on the top of each puri keep 3 bargadi (balls prepared by jaggery )and soaked red chana.
  • Pour wate on the roots of the banyan Tree
  • Add a little turmeric to the rice paste and do the tilak of Banyan Tree with this paste.
  • Light a diya and agarbatti and worship the banyan tree.
  • Then offer the banyan tree all 4 banyan leaves on which we have kept puri and bargadhai
  • now tie the sootha along the banyan tree and take 7 rounds of of Banyan Tree
  • Now recite or listen to the Vat Saviriti Katha . while listening or reciting the katha keep flowers in your hand and once the katha is over give the flowers to banyan tree.
  • Take blessings from your elder ones and husband and give each member of the family with Puri,bargadahi and red chana as Prasad.
  • Many Women observe the fast after doing the Puja.
  • My mom, sister and mom-in-law also have never observe fast after doing the Puja.So same was applied to me.
  • I was not supposed to observe the fast after doing the Puja.
  • But whatever we will prepare it should be without onion and garlic.
  • So i have prepared red chana and Potato gravy along with Puri.
  • Thus i have done my Puja successfully.
  • Note: Once you have completed 7 rounds of banyan tree and if some sootha is remaining do not break it just insert it where you have completed the rounds.

Sunday, May 26, 2013

EER BIR PHATTE

EER BIR PHATTE




Today after finishing the dinner. I was watching TV with my hubby. Nothing was coming on TV. Then we stopped at Sony Entertainment to watch Comedy Circus. During one of the performance one artist said about this song. It reminds about me my childhood memories. Then I just goggled and watched this Song sung by Mr. Amitabh Bacchan on you tube. So i decided to share this song with all people to remind about our childhood memories.

The link to watch this song on you tube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n5Wsdi7ol_k


ek raheN Eer, 
Ek raheN Bir, 
Ek raheN Patte, 
ek raheN hum

Eer kaheN chalo laKrii kaaT aayi
Bir kaheN chalo laKrii kaaT aayi
Patte kaheN chalo laKrii kaaT aayi
Hum kahaa chalo hama'o laKrii kaaT aayiN

Eer kaaTeN eer lakRii
Bir kaaTeN bir lakRii
Patte kaaTeiN tiin lakRii

hum kaaTaa ... 
kariliyaa

Eer kaheiN chalo gulel banayii
Bir kaheiN chalo gulel banayii
Patte kaheiN chalo gulel banayii
hamao kahaa chalo hama'o gulel banaaii 

Eer banayeiN eer gulel
Bir banayeiN bir gulel
Patte banayeiN tiin gulel

Aur hamaar? ... 
kaT kuT gayii

Eer kaheiN chalo chiRiiyaa maar aayi
Bir kaheiN chalo chiRiiyaa maar aayi
Patte kaheiN chalo chiRiiyaa maar aayi
hum kaha chalo hama-o chiRiiyaa maar aayi

Eer maare'n eer chiRiyaa
Bir maare'n bir chiRiyaa
Patte maare'n tiin chiRiyaa

hum maara? .. 
Phudakiyaa

Eer kaheiN chalo bhujii pakaayeiN
Bir kaheiN chalo bhujii pakaayeiN
Patte kaheiN chalo bhujii pakaayeiN
Hum kaha chalo hamao ...bhuuji pakaayeiN

Eer bhuje eer chiRiyaa
Bir bhuje bir chiRiyaa
Patte bhuje tiin chiRiyaa

Hamaar? 
Jal jul gayii!

Eer kaheiN chalo raajaa ke salaam kar aayiN
Bir kaheiN chalo raajaa ke salaam kar aayiN
Patte kaheiN chalo raajaa ke salaam kar aayiN
Hum kaheiN chalo hamuaa raajaa ke salaam kar aayiN

Eer kiye eer salaam
Bir Kiye bir salaam
Patte Kiye tiin salaam

hum diyaa ... 
thenguvaa dikhaa 

Eer kaheiN chalo ghoRaa khariid aayeiN
Bir kaheiN chalo ghoRaa khariid aayeiN
Patte kaheiN chalo ghoRaa khariid aayeiN
Hum kaheiN chalo hamua ghoRaa khariid aayeiN

Eer kharide tiin ghoRaa
Bir kharide tiin ghoRaa
Patte kharide tiin ghoRaa

Aur hum kaa diyaa ...
gadhaiaa

Eer kaheiN ghoRe ko paanii piilaa aayiN
Bir kaheiN ghoRe ko paanii piilaa aayiN
Patte kaheiN ghoRe ko paanii piilaa aayiN
Hum kaheiN chalo hamua paanii piilaa aayiN

Eer pilaayeN eer ghaat
Bir pilaayeN bir ghaat
Patte pilaayeN tiin ghaat

Aur hum? hum pilaayaa 
dhoobii ghaat

Eer kaa bole hee hee
Bir kaa bole hee hee
Patte kaa bole hee hee

Aar hamaar bole?
Hee Haw

Saturday, May 25, 2013

Thinking about my Life & Current Situation




This is my life and what i think about my life


  • I m : a confused person
  • I think : all the time about my future
  • I know : I am very emotional.
  • I care : for everyone.
  • I am : a good cook
  • I wish : I could take a long vacation.
  • I miss : my friends & mom dad.
  • I want : a big 3 BHK Flat at Bangalore and a long vacation with my sweet hubby
  • I have : a sweet small 2HK flat (rented), a sweetheart hubby
  • I fear : loosing someone to whom I love
  • I feel : alone and satisfied
  • I hear : Jilahe Masti mukund barnjhis and kis liye maine Pyaar kiya Song any time. My 2ever favouriate songs
  • I smell : 1st rain smell
  • I crave : chatting with friends and my niece PARI
  • I search: soulful place
  • I wonder: why we sometimes people do many wiered things
  • I regret: about Past
  • I love : cooking, listening Songs , singing & dancing.
  • I hate : When some lies to me
  • I ache : when due to me, someone close to me gets hurt
  • I believe: in God
  • I enjoy : every small occasion with my hubby
  • I sing : not bad or not Good.I cry : almost when anyone shots or talk to me in a loud voice
  • I can’t: say no generally. I wish I could do so.
  • I don't always: listen to my hubby inspite of the fact that i know he is correct
  • I fight : i shout but no fighting
  • I write : my blog about my thoughts and my cooking experiment.
  • I win : my hubby heart
  • I lose : some one
  • I never : want my past where i cried comes again
  • I always: want to make others happy
  • I confuse: my future. What i have to do
  • I listen: to my papa, mummy, elder sisters & Sharman.
  • I am scared: of Street Dogs
  • I need : peaceful life for my future
  • I can usually be found: on the Bed with my lappy
  • I am happy about: My current life. Happily married status :-)

Friday, May 24, 2013

Rahim ke Dohe

रहीम के दोहे 

Here I wanted to share some of the well know doha of Rahim.

Abdul Rahim Khan-e-Khana (17 December 1556 – 1626) was a renowned composer during the time of Mughal emperor Akbar.He was one of the main nine ministers (Dewan) in his court, also known as the Navaratnas. Rahim is famous for hisHindi couplets and his books on Astrology

रहिमन धागा प्रेम का न तोड़े चटकाय 
टूटे से न जूरे जुरे गाठ पर जाय 



बड़े बड़ाई न करे बड़ों न बोले बोल 

रहिमन हीरा कब कहें  लाख टका मम मोल 



बुरा जो देखन मैं चला, बुरा न मिलिया कोय।

जो दिल खोजा आपना, मुझसा बुरा न कोय 



बड़ा हुआ तो क्या हुआ, जैसे पेड़ खजूर।

पंथी को छाया नहीं, फल लागे अति दूर


सॉंच बराबर तप नहीं, झूठ बराबर पाप।
जाके हिरदै सॉंच है, ताके हिरदै आप।

बोली एक अनमोल है, जो कोई बोलै जानि।

हिये तराजू तौल‍ि के, तब मुख बाहर आनि।।


निंदक नियरे राखिए, ऑंगन कुटी छवाय।

बिन पानी, साबुन बिना, निर्मल करे सुभाय।।


जाति न पूछो साधु की, पूछ लीजिए ग्‍यान।

मोल करो तलवार के, पड़ा रहन दो म्‍यान।।


रहिमन देख बड़ेन को लघु न दीजिये डार।
जहाँ काम आवे सुई कहा करै तलवार।।


जो रहीम उत्तम प्रकृति का करि सकत कुसंग।
चंदन विष व्यापत नहीं लपटे रहत भुजंग।।


खीरा सिर से काटिये मलियत नमक बनाय।
रहिमन करूए मुखन को चहियत इहै सजाय।।


रहिमन विपदा हू भली जो थोरे दिन होय।
हित अनहित इह जगत में जान पड़े सब कोय।।





ANNIVERSARY,THOUGHTS & HUSBAND

ANNIVERSARY,THOUGHTS & HUSBAND

It seems it was only Yesterday that we met,talked over pone, have fought on little stupid things and then finally got married. This 11th May we completed 2 Years of our Marriage. To be Precise We have successfully completed 744 Days of Marriage. When I think of past what recalls me that we have recently married. but we have completed 2 Years. 
During these 2 years we fought each other, loved each other that makes our Love towards each other more promising and our bond has gone up high.
Our marriage was a arranged marriage but we both got a sufficient time to know and understand each other. He came to see me on 28th October 2010 and our Engagement was on Dec 12 2010. We got exactly 6 months to know and understand each other.
He was in Mumbai and i was in Bangalore. so it was not like we can meet each other regularly  So for the 5 months we did love fight with each other over phone and afterwards he came to Bangalore to Join his new organization. 
In Our first meeting we both were scared as what to talk and what not to. Slowly slowly we started knowing each other and which is still continuing for Us. and finally we got married and now completed 2 years of marriage. For completing  2 years of wonderful & happily married life with my sweet hubby i want to dedicate the following lines: 

हमारी शादी के दो साल पुरे होने पर अपने पति को क्या उपहार दूं 
मेरे पास थो कुछ भी ऐसा नहीं है  मैं सिर्फ कुछ शब्दॊन से ही उन्हें कह सकती हूँ 
आप जब से मेरी  ज़िन्दगी में  आएँ है तब से समां गए हो आप  मेरी बंदगी में 

मेरी हर साँस पर सिर्फ आपका  अधिकार है आप से ही मेरा संसार हैं 
मेरे  लिए आपके प्यार से बढकर कुछ भी नहीं है 
और आप जैसा प्यारा कोई दूजा भी नहीं हैं 

आपने हर पल दिल से साथ दिया है मेरा क्यों न दो आख़िर तू ही तो पिया है मेरा
आपके  प्यार के लिए तो कोई शब्द भी नहीं क्या गायुं आपके  लिए कोई तर्ज़ भी नहीं
बस इतना ही मैं तो कह सकती हूँ  आपके  बिना अब पिया मैं नहीं रह सकती

प्यार करती हूँ आपसे मैं इतना सनम कर दिया तेरे नाम मैने अपना जीवन
यह जीवन तो अब आपकी सौगात है जिसमे बस आपके प्यार की ही बरसात है     
माँग के देख लो पिया आपके लिए मेरी जान है हाज़िर आपकी हर ख़ुशी के लिए

आज करती हूँ मैं पिया वादा आपसे  साथ तेरा तो कुछ  नहीं  चाहिए मुझे
माफ़ कर देना मोरे पिया मेरी हर एक ख़ता साथ देना सदाचाहे दे लो सज़ा
आपके बिना मेरा जीवन है अधूरा सनम आप मिले मुझको यह मेरा अच्छा कर्म

एक वादा करो कभी छोड़ना नहीं बंधन प्यार का पिया कभी तोड़ना नहीं

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Saawar Loon-Lootera

A Beautiful Song from the Upcoming movie LOOTERA

When I first heard this Song for the first time. I fell in love with the Song. The song is very romantic,melodious and soothing. I think this song truly expresses the excitement of a girl when she falls in love for the first time.

Movie Name: Lootera
Starring g: Ranveer Singh & Sonakshi Sinha
Music by : Amit Trivedi
Singer :Monali Thakur
Lyricist: Amitabh Bhattacharya

Hawa ke jhonke aaj mausamon se rooth gaye
Bulon ki shookhiyaan jo bhanvre aake loot gaye
Badal rahi hai aaj zindagi ki chaal zara
Issi bahaane kyun na main bhi dil ka haal zara
Sanwaar loon haye sanwaar loon
Sawaar loon haye sawaar loon

Baramde purane hain, nayi si dhoop hai
jo palke khatkhata raha hai kiska roop hai
Sharartein kare jo aise bhoolte hain jaab
Kaise usko naam se main pukar loon
Sawaar loon haye sawar loon..
Sawaar loon haye sawar loon..

Hawa ke jhonke aaj mausamon se rooth gaye
Bulon ki shookhiyaan jo bhanvre aake loot gaye
Badal rahi hai aaj zindagi ki chaal zara
Issi bahaane kyun na main bhi dil ka haal zara


हवा के झोंके आज मौसमों से रूठ गए
बलों की शूकियाँ जो भँवरे आके लूट गए 
बदल रही है आज ज़िन्दगी की चाल ज़रा
इसी बहने क्यूँ न मैं भी दिल का हाल ज़रा 
सवार लूं संवार लूं
सवार लूं संवार लूं

बरामदे पुराने हैं नयी सी धुप है 
जो पलके खटखटा रहा है किसका रूप हैं 
शरारतें करे जो ऐसे भूलते हैं जब 
कैसे  उसको नाम से मैं पुकार लूं 
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